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I’ve been my father for 11 years and during this time I understood a lot. I was able to express my experience in 15 points, ” - this begins the article by Justin Riclefs, which was also translated by the“ home ”. A loving father understands: in order to build a warm relationship with the child, you need to understand him and make friends with him. And such a list will help you with this.

She needs your love. Learn to show your daughters your love. She needs it more than money or gifts, the lack of communication cannot be compensated with this.

No one in the world will give her such a feeling of confidence and protection as a loving father. She will grow and make mistakes, upset you, can sometimes be sharp and rude, perhaps even wants to leave home for a while. But you should not give her the slightest reason to doubt your love. She should know that you love her as she is, and that in the parental house she will always be forgiven and understand.

Feel free to talk about it aloud many, many times. Just look into her eyes and say: "I love you." It depends on you what partner in life she will choose. The choice of who will become her husband depends on your attitude to the daughter. If you are a good father, she will look for a guy similar to you. If not, then it will be very difficult for her to get married and find someone.

In prosperous families with a loving father, little girls often say: "I will grow up and marry dad." This is a good indicator. So you behave correctly. Listen to the music that she listens. When a girl becomes a teenager, she has a love of modern music, which is not always to you. Try to understand what she likes about it. Listen to the discs with her, go to the concert of the fashion group so that you have something to talk about.

When you and your daughter are driving in the car, do not switch the music that she chose. In the end, remember that the time when she travels with you will end soon. And the insult will remain. She sees how you feel about her mother. This is the most important advice on our list. You can only follow him, and the success of your relationship with your daughter is ensured. He is simple: do not tire of showing the children that you love their mother and value your marriage.

When participating in children's life, do not forget about your personal life. Find the time to go together with your wife to the theater, to the restaurant, arrange a short trip without children. Show the children that your wife is a great priority for you than them. This is useful not only to strengthen your marriage, but also for forming a relationship to the marriage of your children.

Do not move away from your daughter when she becomes a teenager. From 11 to 15 years, a difficult age begins, when your daughter will change and outwardly become less beautiful, and internally, will become naughty and rude. Do not move away from it in this difficult period, maintain an emotional connection. Be aware of her problems, interests, classes, boyfriends and everything else, so that she can turn to you for any help.

Do not laugh at her if she took your razor to shave her legs. You should always treat her with love and understanding, no matter how much she is - 5 or 15 years old. Go in for sports, it strengthens your character. In order for a healthy and strong woman to grow out of the girl, she must love the sport, and in this you can help her. Do charging with her, take it with you for morning jogging or bicycle walks, teach you to push up, play sports games in the air.

Girls should not grow weaklings. A sports fortress will help to find a spiritual fortress and hardness of character. Indeed, today femininity is not only dresses with enlarges, it is the strength of the body and spirit. Make small holidays more often. Childhood should remain in the daughter of his daughter with the happiest memory. And this memory is formed by small joys and events.

For example, celebrate the flight of your daughter not with gatherings at the table, but a small trip the other day. Let it make a list of places or countries that she wants to visit, discuss it together and choose an acceptable option for you. Trust her make a route and a list of what to take with you. On the road, instruct her to keep a diary. Do not forget the camera to then make an album as a keepsake.

At the end of each week, watch interesting films together, and then let everyone write their impressions. Or organize a solemn breakfast on Sunday. Or make a tradition on Sundays to drink hot chocolate in a cozy cafe. On weekends, you can go on a short campaign in interesting places of your city. Do not be lazy to come up with such events, photograph them.

Fill out the emotional memory of your daughter with the events held with you. Teach her that in life it is more important to give than to take. Something amazing happens when children understand that the Universe does not rotate only around them. That not only they need help, that the last piece of the cake needs to be left for others. Explain to them that life will become better if we help other people.That you can’t think only about yourself, which is sometimes better to be the last in line than, having pushed others, to climb first.

That when you are wrong, you need to honestly admit it. Be near the most important events in her life. It is clear that most fathers work, are busy with their career, and they do not have much free time. But still - try not to miss important events in the life of your daughter, whether it be a concert at a music school, sports competitions or an exhibition of her drawings. And do not get tired of praising it, regardless of the results.

Even if on this day you are invited to a football match, determine your priorities: the matches will be repeated, and your daughter’s childhood is not. It will leave forever. When you are at home, turn off your mobile. The big mistake of many fathers is that, having come home, they actually continue to be absent. They do not break away from the mobile phone, respond to letters, write on Twitter, read the pages on Facebook.

And at this time, your little daughter is waiting for you to pay attention to her. Turn off the phone immediately, crossing the threshold of the house. Take a little time of the one that was waiting for you all day, play with it, read the book or just sit in a hug and blow yourself. Remember that very soon she will have other interests, and she will not want to be at home where she is not paid attention to.

Learn to weave braids. Of course, this is a purely female business to comb your daughters, weave braids and tie tails, but the father must be able to, just in case. Suddenly you and your daughter go on vacation together? Moreover, experienced psychologists believe that the father should be able to not only make hairstyles, but also paint his daughter's nails, if necessary.

This will show her that a man can be not only strong, but also tender. Walk with your daughter somewhere together. At least several times a year, invite your daughter to a “date” without a mother and other family members. Go with her together in cinema, theater or to a restaurant. Such meetings will show her how a man should handle a woman. Open the car door in front of her, help remove and put on a coat, say compliments, joke, let her choose what you want in the restaurant and pay the account.

Let her feel like a "beauty for a million." This will not ruin you. Come up with your options, where and how to spend several hours with your daughter. You can go to the park with bicycles or a bookstore together, but this event should be planned in advance as a real date. Explain to her that an attractive appearance is not all. Psychologists believe that it is the father who should explain to the daughter that the internal beauty is much more important than the external, that it is the internal content of the girl, her character, cordiality, her self -esteem is the core that will allow her to find the right path in life.

It is very difficult to raise a daughter in the modern world of sensual glamorous standards. But it is you who can explain to her that in order to make an impression, you do not need to expose every piece of your body. Do not blink your childhood!