Serik Tulbasov Biography

Life will show. It all depends on their abilities. And to be honest, I would not want my children to do business. I would prefer them to do their favorite business. And money is a test for any person. Will my children be able to go through this test? I am very worried about it. I would like them to work more for pleasure, and not as necessary. It is better to be a good professional and, possibly, work in a large, good company where you are appreciated, respect where you are paid well for your work.

And to devote free time to the family, a hobby. I put priorities correctly. In any case, now I do not focus only on work. I realized that this is not the main thing. The family came to the fore. I began to pay more attention to children, relatives, friends. And to your hobbies: mountains, hunting, fishing. The middle son loves fishing very much and goes hunting with me with pleasure, and we walk together in the mountains.

And the elder already has his own circle of communication, he prefers to spend time with friends, and not with his parents. An adult already. We definitely celebrate the New Year at home and all together. We rest together too. True, this year, for the first time in so many years, the children rested without us. Alikhan and Alio went to Turkey and only returned yesterday.

Gulnara is in a position, and we wait for replenishment literally after 20 days. They did not risk and remained in Almaty. Always waiting for him. Even if they had already dinner, then when he comes, they sit down at the table again. And all because they have a huge need to communicate with him! Children watch how the father lives, what he does, with whom he is friends, what is fond of all these actions, as it seems to me, is education.

With our actions, we bring up our children. We are them, and they are us. So, education is a mutual process. Victory gives rise to self -confidence, gives a charge to overcome the following tasks. And this brings joy to parents, a sense of pride in children. Alikhan liked the feeling of the first victory when he was invited to rise to the pedestal, photographed from all sides, and interviewed.

He came so excited: for two days he did not take off the medal from his neck laughs, he put the cup near the bed and showed it to his friends. And the elder has a completely different character. He, as they say, is the "soul of the company." He has many friends, everyone loves him, probably because he is a subtly sensing mood of people, empathetic person. The daughter has a strong character, Allai should be either the first or no.

Without compromises. I don’t know if it will help her in life, or vice versa. It seems to me that the task of parents is to understand in time what is important for your child, what his abilities are, what is interesting to him and what he succeeds. We only give the opportunity to reveal ourselves to abilities laid down by nature. In general, the family, by definition, is a hierarchical structure, not only because of different ages of family members, but also in life experience and knowledge.

How is this issue solved in your family?

Still, they have more trusting relationships with their mother. I can ask for certain actions and punish. Apparently, this makes them be not fully frank with me and send mom for negotiations. But these are sons. With our daughter, we have no secrets. When he scolds or punches children, then he can not sleep all night. In the morning he sends me - see how they are there. And if the child has any problem, he will walk all day, think about her, try to solve.

Everything else is secondary.